Advice to women
Constance Pipelet de Salm
Young beauties, enflamed by Love,
young beauties, listen to me.
Fear to abandon your soul
to the god whose law you follow.
Source of joy and sorrow,
he's an ungrateful child
and you need a bit of skill
to bind him while bending before him.
For you, love is business.
For a man, love is pleasure.
He's jealous by nature,
but flighty by desire.
Imitate him when he flies off.
When he gets annoyed, flee him:
He'll be back after her idol
as soon as he has to conquer her.
Often, more in love than anything,
a lover upsets us innocently.
He sees our tears without understanding them
and hurts us more with his apologies.
Don't arm yourself
with false delicacy.
After all, a bit of awkwardness
doesn't prevent someone from loving truly.
Above all, show with finesse
a spirit made for commitment.
Man is unfair in his weakness.
You have to know how to manage him.
Pretend that you learn everything from him.
He likes to parade his wisdom.
You'll see that he will be more tender
the more you let him show it off.
Never cry for a fickle man
or try to insult him:
only by showing courage
can a woman avenge herself.
Stay away from the guilty one, though,
for your fires could spring back to life.
The men we have to stop loving
are always so lovable!
When time, the fearful reaper,
comes to harvest your charms,
let a more loving spirit make him
forget that your cheeks are a little less fresh.
We attract them with our figures,
we keep them with our spirits,
and the spirit is an adornment
that never fades with time.